If you want your children to succeed in school and life, get involved in their education.
That’s right. Research shows that when parents and guardians are involved, children have better grades, attendance, motivation and self-esteem. They’re much more likely to graduate and much less likely to abuse drugs and alcohol, be suspended and behave violently.
In fact, family participation in a child’s education is a stronger predictor of academic success than even IQ or socioeconomic status.
The importance of parents as education partners makes sense considering that school-age children only spend 30 percent of their waking hours in school.
That’s one reason why Childhaven’s staff tries to involve families as much as possible in their child’s therapeutic care and development. We bring parents and guardians into our classrooms to observe and participate, and we offer specialized programs to help families foster positive relationships with their children. We also conduct home visits to meet with families and discuss issues and goals.
Research shows that when parents come to school (and school comes to parents), children see the connection and view school as an important part of life.
The earlier and more intense the family involvement, the greater the benefits. But even full-time working parents who can’t volunteer during the school day can make a powerful difference by engaging their child in learning activities at home.
Here are some tips:
Establish a daily routine with quiet time for homework and reading. Eat dinner as a family as much as possible, and be firm about bedtimes.
Limit television watching and screen time.
Regularly talk to your child about school and daily happenings, including news events, when appropriate.
Set high, but realistic expectations for your child and show enthusiasm for their progress.
Read to your children and have them read to you. If your child is an independent reader, read the same book and discuss it afterwards.
Track and review homework to help your child develop good self-discipline and work habits.
Maintain open communication with teachers about lessons, goals and expectations, as well as any concerns you may have about your child’s progress.
Go to libraries, museums, plays, concerts, book readings, zoos, sporting events and parks to whet your child’s natural appetite for learning, both in school and out.
Maria Chavez Wilcox is the president of Childhaven. Since 1909, Childhaven has been a safe and caring place for babies, toddlers and preschoolers. Today, Childhaven is a community leader, statewide advocate and national model in the treatment and prevention of child abuse and neglect. For more information, call 206-624-6477 or visit website at www.childhaven.org.
